I Hurt

If i show you how much you had hurt me- you will never be able to see in my eyes.

Who am I to say you love me

Love of my life, my soulmate
You're my best friend
Part of me like breathing
Now half of me is left
Don't know anything at all

Who am I to say you love me
I don't know anything at all
And who am I to say you need me

Color me blue I'm lost in you
Don't know why I'm still waiting
Many moons have come and gone
Don't know why I'm still searching

Don't know anything at all
And who am I to say you love me
I don't know anything at all
And who am I to say you need me


Now you're a song I love to sing
Never thought it feels so free
Now I know what's meant to be
And that's okay with me

But who am I to say you love me
And who am I to say you need me
And who am I to say you love me

I don't know anything at all
And who am I to say you love me
I don't know anything at all
And who am I to say you need me
I don't know anything at all

I don't know anything at all
I don't know anything at all
I don't know anything at all

A beautiful song from hope

Emotional Maturity: A medicine for living Happily

1. He who lives by emotions lives without principle.
2. We cannot be spiritual (walk in the spirit) and be led by emotions.
3. Emotions won't go away, but you can learn to manage them.
4. You can have emotions, but you can't always rely on them.

Make emotional maturity a primary goal in your life!

Kash Koi Humse Bhi Pyaar Karta

Hasrat Hi Rahi, Humse Bhi Kabhi Koi Pyaar Karta,
Koi Dil Pe Hamaare Bhi Meethi Nazar, Ek Baar Karta
Nikle The Hum Dil Ki Jholi Liye,
Duniya Ne Kante Hi Kaante Diye
Itne To Bure Na The, Humse Nazar Koi Chaar Karta,
Duniya Mein Kya Kya Na Mele Rahe,
Hum The Akele Akele Rahe
Dil Rakhte The Hum, Humko Bhi Koi Dildaar Karta,
Maangi Thi Humne Khudaai Kahaan,
Thokar Pe Thokar Mili Jo Yahaan
Kya Jaata Agar Koi Dil Ka Nagar Gulzaar Karta,
Kash Koi Humse Bhi Pyaar Karta. :...(

Smile and win heart

Life is not made up of Great Sacrifices and duties. But made up of simple smiles and kind words and kind acts. We can share our happiness and smiles to make the day of the person who is very near to us. It cost nothing. But it shows a lot of character that we care for our near and dears and they live in our heart.

This song is dedicated to you Dear.

Bebasi dard ka aalam, tum mujhe de do apne gham
Khamoshiyan bhi do, tanhaaiyan bhi do
Bechaaniyan bhi de do, de do naa
Bhigi palkon se churaa loongaa nami
Rehne doonga naa, kahin koi kami

Tumko daaman na bhigone doonga
Ab kabhi tumko na rone doonga
Uljhane gham ki parchhaiyi
De do mujhe apni tanhaaiyaan
Gumnaamiyan bhi do, naakaamiyan bhi do
Viraaniyan bhi de do, de do naa

Tere hothon pe sajaa doonga hansi
Teri raahon mein bichha doonga khushi
Tum mujhe apna maanti ho agar
Yun khafa hoke na jhukaao nazar
Mushkilen apni majburi
Ho de do mujhe saari benoori
Pareshaaniyan bhi do, hairaaniyan bhi do
Nigebaaniyan bhi de do, de do naa

Bebasi dard ka aalam, tum mujhe de do apne gham
Khaamoshiyan bhi do, tanhaaiyan bhi do,
Bechainiyan bhi de do, de do naa

This beautiful song is from movie Babul sung by Kunal.
I want to dedicate this song to my lovely wife. I simply love the wordings and the song has all the feelings which i get in my heart for you.

Love Means Sacrifice, Not Selfishness

No matter how long you may live, you will never stop learning. Every minute of every day brings new opportunities to learn something we’ve never known before. If i say about my views than i am always open for new thoughts even if it means to change my own thoughts for the new one if i like them and believe on them. The girl whom i love the most has changed my views on Love and selfishness.
One of the most important facets I have learned about love is unselfishness i.e. willingness to sacrifice our wishes for those we love. I've learned that true love will always adapt and adjust to the needs and desires of other people.
In the begining it was very difficult for me to adapt and adjust to the needs and desires for her. To be honest, I wanted my way, and i got upset when i didn't get it. I was selfish! I wanted what I wanted, when I wanted it! Slowly, I learned to adapt my own needs and desires in order to help meet the needs of hers.
Once you’ve been reduced to love, you’ll have no trouble establishing and maintaining good, healthy relationships with others. Your primary goal in life will be to put the wishes of your love before your own.

Great Relationships don't just happen, they are created.

Relationships: The toughest task for two persons to maintain. Though in general it seems that its very easy but Its required a lot of commitment and maturity from both the ends. The easiest way to maintain a healthy relationship is to build the bond of affection and trust. Gradually with concious choice, commitment, and intention, we can repair the connective cord with sincere acts of consideration, generosity, and kindness on a daily basis.

Kash aisa hua hota? Kash aisa na hua hota?

Kahte hain pyar ki shuruat ek muskan se hoti hai. pyar parwaan chadhta hai ek kiss se aur uska end hota hai tears se. Aisa end kyon hota hai us roohani rishte ka jiski ibadat bhagwan ne bhi ki hai. kyon pyar aur aansoon sath hote hain. Kyon do dil milkar bhi juda ho jate hain. Shayad zindgi bhar ek doosre ki yaad main tadapne ke liye. kash koi pyaar na kare, kare to fir usko paa bhi le. ye dard kai zindgiyan barbaad kar deta hai. ye dard na marne deta hai aur na hi jeene. jisne is dard ko jiya ho wo samajh sakta hai aur koi nahin. Kai sawalon ke jawab nahin hote. kai sawaal sirf sawal rah jate hain aur zindgi bhar ka dard de jate hain. Kash aisa hua hota? Kash aisa na hua hota?

Hum ne jo tha nagma suna; Dil ne tha usko chuna; Yeh dastaan humein vaqt ne kaise sunai; Hum jo agar hai gumgee ; Woh bhi udhar khush to nahi; Mulakato mein hai jaise ghul si gai tanhai ; Milke bhi hum milte nahi Khilke bhi gul khilte nahi; Aankhon mein hai baharein dil mein khiza; Sare sehmein nazare hain Soye soye vaqt ke dhare hain ; Aur dil mein koi khoye si baatein hain ; Kehne ko Jashan-e-bahara hai; Ishq yeh dekhke hairaan hai ; Phool se khusboo khafa khafa hai gulshan mein ; Chupa hai koi ranj fiza ki chilman mein

Dil ki ye aarzoo thi koyi dilruba mile

Dil ki ye aarzoo thi koyi dilruba mile
Lo ban gaya naseeb ke tum hum se aa mile
Aankhon ko ik ishaare ki zehmat to dijiye
Qadmon mein dil bichha dun ijaazat to dijiye
Gham ko gale laga lun jo gham aap ka mile
Kal tum juda huwe the jaha saath chhod kar
Hum aaj tak khade hain ussi dil ke mod par
Hum ko is intazaar ka kuchh to silaah mile
Dil ki ye aarzoo thi koyi dilruba mile

Why is it that we love the ones who ignore us and ignore the ones who love us?

i don't have any answer for it. Can't say. But its true.

Jina isika naam hain

Kisiki muskurahton pe ho nisar,
Kisike waste ho tere dil main pyaar
Kisika dard le sake to le udhar
Jina isika naam hain
Mana apni jeb se fakir hain,
fir bhi yaron dil se hum amir hain
Kisike dard mai hum muskurayenge,
kisiko marke bhi hum yaad ayenge
Kisiko ho na ho hamein hain aitbaar,
jeena isi ka naam hain.

What if? Kaash

we all have those "What if?" moments. The important thing is that we don't do anything about it. Never regret for not getting anything, never weep for not getting what you want, never get yourself hurt for not be with one whom you love the most.

If it is what you want than its good,

but if it is not what you want than its always better.

man ka ho to acha aur na ho to aur bhi acha.

Zindagi is tarah se lagne lagi

Zindagi is tarah se lagne lagi
Rang ud jaaye jo deewaaron se
Ab chhupaane ko apna kuch na raha
Zakhm dikhne lagi daraaron se
Main tere jism ki hoon parchhaai
Mujhko kaise rakhoge khud se judaa
Bhool karna to meri fitrat hai
Kyoon ki insaan hoon main, nahin hoon khuda
Mujhko hai apni har khata manzoor
Bhool ho jaati hai insaanon se
Jab kabhi shaam ke andheron mein
Raah panchhi jo bhool jaate hain
Voh subaah hote hi milon chalkar
Apni shaakhon pe laut aate hain
Kuch hamaare bhi saath aisa hua
Hum yehi keh rahe ishaaron se
Zindagi is tarah se lagne lagi
Rang ud jaaye jo deewaaron se
Ab chhupaane ko apna kuch na raha
Zakhm dikhne lage daraaron se

Koi ye kasie bataye....

koi yeh kaise bataye ki woh tanha kyun hai,
jism apna hai toh rooh be panah kyun hai,
is jahan se us jahan tak sukoon hi nahi,
bekraar meri duniya ki har jagah kyun hai,
raas aai na koi khushi kabhi mujhko,
yeh ek dard phir mere jeene ki wajah kyun hai,
jiski nafrat mein bhi nahi jagah mere jasbaon ki,
uski mohabbat mein zindagi fannah kyun hai,
shauk hai mere hothon ko bahut lafzon ka,
chup rehne ko phir dil ne kahaa kyun hai

Why this has happened to me?

Just because you love someone doesn't mean they are always good for you.

Ab Adat Na Rahi....

Sapno se dil lagane ki aadat nahi rahi,
har waqt muskurane ki aadat nahi rahi,
ye soch ke ki koi manaane nahi aayega,
ab hume rooth jaane ki aadat nahi rah

The Power of Love Conquers All.

If you'r truly in love with a person even when you are dealing through the hardest obstacle ever. If you can walk away from everything and just be with that person, I think that shows a lot. So yes, in my opinion, definitely, Love conquers all :)

I'm Hurt :'''(((

I'm hurt, much more, than you will ever know
I'm so hurt, Because still i love you so
way deep, Way deep inside me
But even, though, even though you hurt me
Like nobody else could ever do
But I would never, ever hurt, hurt you
because i love you.

I care for You

Sometimes I feel so alone

I call your heart but there's no one at home

Taking a toll on my pride

I'm reaching out but there's no one inside

You know it doesn't feel right

When I look in your eyes

I know love is blind but the heart doesn't lie

I'll ask one more time

Maybe this time you'll try

So tell me dear what's deep in your heart
Dear I care about you

I'm there for you

So why don't you care for me

Like I care about you
I spend like all of my day,

Trying to sense out just how things got this way

I thought that we were in love

But I swear right now I don't know what you want

I make sure that I give you quality time

But lately I feel you're not mine by choice

But still I'm gonna try to give you the love of my life

In hopes that you, that you will open up your heart, One Day
Sometimes I'm not sure that

That I'm all you got

Sometimes I'm not sure you love me or not,

Just one thing that I'm certain of

I care for you

And the one thing that I want is that you care for me too

How do we know if our life partner is our soul mate or our destiny?

Though only time can tell about it. But if we get the love and care from our life partner then he is our soulmate else sad destiny.

You want to kill yourself?

If you want to kill yourself: Love someone truely without getting it, and you will die daily.

How to choose a life partner?

If I had a choice between six beautiful Roses and each with a most brilliant color mesh tones as well. All the Roses fills your heart to a very good warming. All of them are so lovely, but if you had to choose just one: I would choose the one with more roots.

Its same to choose your lifepartner. Choose the one who have ethics, who can sacrifice, who can love, who have deep understanding of values. You will be happy for your life and will never regret.

How come we hurt the one whom we love the most?

My Opinion: Because when we love someone, we automatically give that person the right to hurt us. We become vulnerable to them, and they tend to become insensitive to our feelings. I think we hurt the one we love most because we are not really happy with that person anymore, so we lash out at the slightest "excuse" to be mad.

Unsolicited advice: try to think and feel more. think about what you really want and how you see yourself with this person in the next three to five years. but that's just me :)

Do you know who she is?

Do you know who she is?
She is rose in my flowers,
The winter sun in my cold,
The shelter in my rains,
The Bright star in my night,
The fire to my candle,
But alas! her feelings differ from mine.
She is mine in my dreams
But she is a dream in my life.
My heart has been broken in pieces,
I bleeded tears many times.
Once i smiled remembering her,
Now i cud only cry remembering her
But alas! she is always there in my thoughts.
Once i wait for her calls,
Once i want to recieve her mails,
Once i want to recieve her sms,
But alas! they never comes to me.
And my wait never ends.
Once i want her love,
Once i want her touch,
Once i want her feel,
Love from one side gives pain,
and from two it heals.
But alas! it never happend,
And my wounds never healed.
I tear my heart open just to feel the pain,
I shut my lips just to be quite,
I laugh a lot, just to show i am happy,
I don't want to show my wounds
But alas! my eyes are not with me
they are like her, not feel the same as i wish
They shed the tears when they wish.
still don't know who she is?
she is my life,
she is my love,
she is my wish,
she is my never ending wait,
But alas! my wish will never be fulfiled,
And she will always be there in my heart.

My First Love.

Behaviour and Character.

We Can change the behaviour of the people but not the Character.

Love- Patience, Pain, Priceless- Not a first sight thing.

Love is an emotion, its a feeling and a decision. Its not a fools game that by seeing someone we fall in love. Emotion and feelings develops with time. When we know the person close to us we build a Trust in our relationship. Its not a matter of days. Many months and sometimes years has to be invested in getting true love. Its a decision because when we decide and sure us that this is the right person to live with for the whole life we take a decision. We give everything whatever we are having ie. our world [Priceless]. So its not a first sight thing. If you want true love be prepare to wait for days, months and years. Its only once in a lifetime.

Who is a Soulmate or a True Life Partner?

Someone with whom you can share your secrets of life without thinking twice and know that
he/she will never leave you. On whom you can trust with closed eyes. With whom you feel
complete. With whom you feel secure and don't think about you because you know that someone thinking and caring you more than you do for yourself. Someone who sacrifise his comfort and happiness for you.

How to recover from Past Relationships..

PAST means OVER

OVER means MEMORIES

MEMORIES means GOOD or BAD

GOOD means PICK it up and Apply to your present or future relationship.

BAD means FORGIVE & FORGET and AVOID and TRY not to REPEAT it again.

Forgive & Forget will makes your LIFE happier. And Remember ! Do not compare your relationship either PAST or PRESENT or with SOMEONE this HURTS & NO BODY ARE PERFECT.

When you love someone
And they break your heart
don’t give up on love
Have faith, restart
Just hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on
When it falls apart
And your feeling lost
All your hope is gone
don’t forget to hold on, hold on
Cause an empty room can be so loud
Its too many tears to drown them out
So hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on
When you love someone
And they break your heart
don’t give up on love
Have faith, restart
Just hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on

Its a beautiful song from Jonas Brother.

Love and Relationships should be earned. Love is something that shoul grow over time and the more you let it grow, the more beautiful it will be when it finally blooms. Sometimes days are not enough. It take months and years to get into a true and real relationship and love. We should have patiance and enough devotion, Trust and Faith on our partner and on God.

The worst thing in life is ‘attachment’.

It hurts when u loose it..

The best thing in life is ‘lonliness’.

Bcoz, It teaches u everything & so,

when u loose it,

U get EVERYTHING.. ..!

Love is the other name of Endless Forgiveness.

Love is the other name of Endless Forgiveness.

The words of Marilyn Monroe:

"I believe that everything happens for a reason. People change so that you can learn to let go. Things go wrong so that you can appreciate them when they are right. You believe less so eventually you learn to trust no one but yourself. and sometimes good things fall apart, so better things can come together." Things will get better just keep your head up

If you truly understand the meaning of the lines you will never be sad.

What can you offer for Love?

Love is an emotion and a decision. It bring joys as well as challenges. When you love someone you make a decision to share your life with that person and care for them better than you care for yourself. You also don't want them to regret loving you so try to be spontaneous and more loving when you'r with him or her. Even if you're the most boring person in the world anyone who's worth the effort will see that you're willing to move out of your comfort zone for them (giving).
Love is given when a person feels that they know a person well enough to give themselves totally with complete trust.

Don't offer the world [material], instead offer your world [priceless]

Care for the Speical One

When a person expects care from you. It doesn’t mean tat there is no one to care for them .It means the care from you is very special than any one else.

How far somebody goes for his or her love? To what extent do somebody love.

Unconditional Love

Its amazing how someone break your heart, But you still love her with all the little pieces.
Once in Life time someone breaks your heart and if you still feel to love that person with every broken piece, that amazing pain is called True Affection and your True Love.